The ending

The reason the title is "The ending" is because this will be my last blog. A total of 10. It's not so much, but enough to get you through life. Today will just be going through my previous blogs and see what we learned. My first blog was about how to avoid a regret before it happens. We learned that if it's something you want like an object or a person you like, to think about the future. Think ahead, is it worth buying, is he/she worth getting with, will you get bored of the object/won't need it or will you be waisting your time with the person because you know that your going no where with them. My second blog is about a man named John who was divorced, used to always go to a coffee house, and there was a girl he liked that worked there, he didn't know if he should ask her out because he just got divorced but he took the chance and did. John and the girl got married and raised two kids. He took his chances and got positive results. My third blog is about To Regret. It's about the pros and cons about regretting something, like regretting to hurt, annoy or disappoint someone or regretting to do something to satisfy yourself. My fourth blog is about a boy named Lance. He'd always get bullied in school and everybody hated him. There was a girl he liked and he tried to ask her out be she denied. In the future Lance became rich and a ladies man, once he saw the girl that denied him and she regretted every move she's made. My fifth blog is about treasuring what you have. A guys ex would come down from Vancouver to visit him on Christmas for the last 4 years. She tried getting back with him but he never wanted to. He then realized that she was the only one he wanted and on his way to meet her he then learns that she died in a car crash. My sixth and seventh blog is about 10 regrets people wish they did when they had the chance. For example, traveling when they had the chance, learning other languages, getting good grades, taking risks/steps and being healthy. My eighth blog is about a guy who trying to reunite with an old friend but got mix with someone else. He started liking that person and regrets confronting her, his actions lead to them not being as close but still friends. My ninth blog is about taking risks in life. It explains how taking risks in life could bring you new skills and opportunities that you never thought you would get and taking risks could lead you somewhat you want or better. Now finally this blog is my tenth blog which is a summary of all my blogs. I hope you learned a lot of my blogs and are taking the next step. I wish you all luck with your problems and have a great life.

Take Risks

If you ever wanna achieve in life, you’ll have to start taking positive, calculated risks. It is necessary to take chances to achieve anything great in life, however many are scared to take the initial leap. As with any chances you take, there is always something at stake. Taking risks opens a person up to new challenges and opportunities. A person should push themselves to learn a new skill, for example, public speaking, this skill could come in handy for anything such as presentations or announcements. Also, taking risks can cause a person to become more creative, when you put yourself out on a limb, with a no-excuse approach, your natural problem-solving skills kick in and you’re open to new ideas and are willing to try something new. Taking risks can result in a positive outcome. Not every life step can be planned out. Some times taking risks could take you to where you want to be. Having to take chances in life could define what you really want. Calculated risks are taken with careful thoughts. Yet the fact that your taking risks pushes you to make things work. Once you have become accustomed to taking risks, you break free from the average way of living and thinking. Instead of fighting to stay safe you gain the momentum and confidence needed to welcome new opportunities in your career or business. Its better to take risks then to always wait because the road may be bumpy at times but it going to take you to where you want to go. There will be risks that you are going to regret and some that you wont, but the risks you take make you the person you are, the person you want to be and the person your going to be. There is no need to be scared because eventually you'll get used to it.

''I Loved Someone That Didn't Love Me''

‘’I Loved Someone That Didn't Love Me’’, was written anonomysly. It was best for the writer to keep it anonomys because in the story he explains his emotions for someone he likes and how he got his heart broken. It all started in May 2005 when he was still freshman in high school. He was looking around to find an old friend that changed school in grade 6 and was hoping that they landed in the same high school. He forgot what she looked like but remembered her first name. So he started asking around for someone with the same name but got nothing. He finally thought he found her but ended up being the wrong person. He just gave up and just started talking to this girl that he thought was her. It turns out that they have similar things in common. They started talking a lot and became friends. Throughout the year they spent a lot of time together and eventually became best friends. They told each other everything. Their dreams, hopes, wishes, goals, everything. He never really thought of her as anything more than a best friend. Summer soon began and ended, and they became high school sophomores. It was very rough for him but she was always there for him, always by his side. 2006 came where he thought everything would be the same, but it wasn’t. After coming back to school from winter vacation, he started having feelings for her. He tried denying it and tried stopping but it didn’t work. His feelings started growing and growing. He couldn’t control any of it, and one day he snapped. He bumped in to her and they started talking, he told her how he felt and everything. That wasn’t the worst part. The worst part is her reaction. She thought that he became close to her just to get with her and that he lost all her trust. She started ignoring him for 3 month while he trying to talk. They finally started talking but it wasn’t the same. He says hi and bye but can’t really look her in the eye and have a conversation. She now has a boyfriend and him happy for her but not jealous, he just wishes that he could go back to that day and not tell her everything. They are friends now, but not like they used to be. He lost his best friend

5 regrets part 2

In my previous blog, I talked about 5 important regrets. Today I’m going to talk about 5 more important regrets. Let’s start with number one, 1) Not learning another language. Learning other languages at a young age is very good. It’s a good way to communicate with other people who don’t really know you’re languages, and it is also a very easy and great way to get a job. The more languages you know, the easier it is to get a job. 2) Staying in a bad relationship. By staying in a bad relationship you cause more stress and depression towards yourself. Enjoying your life when you have the chance is better than ruining it for someone else. 3) Missing the chance to see your favorite musician. It’s better to see your favorite musician earlier because you never know what could happen. It’s better to see them when you have the chance. 4) Letting yourself be defined by gender roles. The way you see other people doesn’t mean that’s how you have to be. Be yourself or else you’re life you’ll be someone fake and would be following other people’s footsteps. 5) Not being grateful. This is a big problem in society. A lot of people I see always say ``I want to kill myself``, ``I don’t like it``, ``I wish I was like that``, ``I wish I had that``. You got to be grateful for what you have and enjoy your life. There are a lot of people who don’t have what you have and wish they did. Enjoy what you have before you don’t have it anymore.

These last 5 important regrets, you should follow. Otherwise you will live your life hatting yourself or being stressed and would have a low self-esteem 

5 Regrets

There are a lot of regrets. Things people wish they didn’t do or things people wish they did do. But there are 5 regrets that are the most important. Let’s start with the first one. 1) Traveling when you had the chance. Traveling gets harder as you get older.  As you get older you have a lot of people depend on your presence and you start having health problems. Travel when you’re young and enjoy your life, make memories when you’re young and start building up more from there. 2) Being afraid to do things. You cannot let you’re fear control you, control yourself and do things that you wouldn’t expect yourself to do, go on adventures and do crazy things, just have when fun before it’s too late. 3) Failing to work out and being healthy. As you are young, you’re in your prime to look good, play sports and be healthy. When you get older and  you never had any workout time as when you were a kid you’ll take a lot of medication and will walk weird. 4) Not trying hard in school. A lot of kids nowadays say that when they grow up they want to have a big house with a pool in the back, a nice car, and that they just want to be rich. But in school they have low grades. In our generation, to be successful, you need to have good grades which is lame but that’s what it is. So if you want to be rich, pay attention in class and get good grades to be successful. 5) Not listening to your parent’s advice. Now in our generation, society makes us think differently, differently than the past from where our parents were young. When you’re parents give you advice, listen to them, they know what’s best for you and they know what situation you’re in because they’ve been in the same situation and they know what to do.

These 5 regrets aren’t the top 5 but there the most important to follow. You need to go on vacations and have fun, you need to be healthy and workout, you need good grades to succeed and you need to follow your parent’s advice. That way you’ll be happier in your life and you’ll have a better feature and something to remember. 

Treasure what you have!

Hello. I’ve just read the most regretfull story that I’ve ever read in my life. The story was about a man who has been single for years, but every year on Christmas his ex-girlfriend would fly from Vancouver to come and see him because she still had feelings for him an she was hoping to solve things between her and him. Al tho, every year when she would come to visit he would use one of his girl friends to pose as his girlfriend so the Vancouver girl would think that he has moved on,  but she just never seemed to give up. However, years after trying the Vancouver girl just stopped coming to visit, it has been 3 years. On Christmas eve the man was invited to a friends for a party. He showed up to the party alone. He has seen one of the girls he used to pose as his girlfriend, as he tried ignoring her she yells across the room and walks up to him. She asked if he was alone, and he replied with a ‘’yes’’. The poser has said something the has woke him up and made him think. She had said, ‘’OH because you weren’t looking for one right?’’.  Right then the man new that the girl of his dreams was the Vancouver girl that has been trying to get back with him for years. The man rushed out the party, his plan was to go and call the Vancouver girl. On his way home, he starts thinking if the girl had got over him or not. Running home with regret he starts calling the girl but has difficulties. He was having trouble to call, especially sinse it was overseas. He kept trying and trying and then at 12:00 am he finally got a hold of her. He started explaining to her that he still loves her and he wants her back. By hearing crying, he then knew that she wasn’t over him. By excitement, he booked a flight to Vancouver. Sadly, 2 days before his flight, the Vancouver girls dad calls him and says that she had died from a car accident. He then started crying from regret and cursing on his luck. The moral of the story was that to never avoid something good that has been in front of you and that has been trying to get back with you for years. Treasure what you have,  time is to slow for those who wait.

Regret by judging

Once, there was a boy named Lance, and Lance was born and grew up in France. He always wore a red t-shirt and some grey pants and no one ever really gave him a chance. Let's cut to the chase and talk about his face, Lance was really ugly and had a little tummy, he walked really funny and was little grumpy. He liked this girl Jen, but she turned him down cause he didnt look like a men. Until one day Lance was tired of all of it, he lost it. Lost all weight, the grump and the walk, then he learned how to go up the girls and talk. Lance turned himself into a real men, to the point where girls asked for his number "heres the pen". He grew up to be wealthy, had a lot of money and married a beautiful honey. He had this big house with a pool in the back and a track, if you ran it all you would have cought a heart attack. Lance became famouse for owening half of Los Angeles. He was on a lot of talk shows, and would blow real nices o's, from the cigar the he usually smoked in his car cause he drove real far. Lance changed himself, he went from being a no life, that no one wanted, to having the choice of picking any girl that he could've wifed. One day Lance bumped in to Jen, and Jen saw what she could've had, but she remembered she turned him down cause he looked really bad. Lance seeing the regret in her eyes seeing the mistake that she made, and in his eyes she just backed up and started to fade. This right here is a lessin, dont judge a book by its cover or just like Jen you would have missed out on a life you would have called a blessin.